Friends

One day when you feel alone
Remember i'm at the end of a phone
I love you loads
And that must show
I want to let all the world to no
I have a friend, that is you
I love you for all you do
Your face so sweet and your heart so gentle
Keeping me together when i'm going mental
Telling me you love me and that you hold me tight
Being there for me even in the night
Thank you friend you mean a lot to me
Maybe now you'll see
How much you mean to me

THOUGHTS: Secrets of Love

The First Secret: THE POWER OF LOVE - Lovebegins with our thoughts. We become what we think. Lovingthoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships.Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts aboutourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we needto consider their needs and desires. Thinking about yourideal partner will help recognize him or her when you meet.

The Second Secret: THE POWER OF RESPECT - Youcannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The firstperson you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gainself-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, askyourself, "What do I respect about them?"

The Third Secret: THE POWER OF GIVING - If you want toreceive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love yougive, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself,freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness.The secret formula of a happy, lifelong relationship is to alwaysfocus on what you can give instead of you can take.

The Fourth Secret: THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP - To find truelove you must first find a true friend. To love someone completelyyou must love them for who they are not what they look like.Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you wantto bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

The Fifth Secret: THE POWER OF TOUCH - Touch is one ofthe most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriersand bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical andemotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

The Sixth Secret: THE POWER OF LETTING GO - If you lovesomething, let it be free. Even in a loving relationship, people needtheir space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgiveand let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of ourfears, prejudices, egos and conditions.

The Seventh Secret: THE POWER OF COMMUNICATION -To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the peopleyou love know; that you love and appreciate them. Never beafraid to say, "I love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praiseand acknowledge someone. Always leave someone you love witha loving word ... it could be the last time you see them.

The Eighth Secret: THE POWER OF COMMITMENT - If youwant to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it.Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have lovingrelationships, you must be committed to loving relationships.When you are committed to someone or something, quitting isnever an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationshipfrom a strong, loving one.

The Ninth Secret: THE POWER OF PASSION - Passion igniteslove and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come throughphysical attraction alone. It comes from deep commitment,enthusiasm, interest and excitement. The essence of love andhappiness are the same, all we need to do is to live each daywith passion.

The Tenth Secret: THE POWER OF TRUST - You cannot lovesomeone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as ifyour relationship with the person you love will never end. Trustis essential in all loving relationships. Trust yourself, trust othersand trust the world. It is the foundation for LOVE.

WHO AM I ???

WHO AM I ???

You are born into this world free
Free from fault or guilt
Born innocent.
You are then bombarded with
Expectations, control, blame, rules and responsibilities.

Does this make you defined by external sources?
Are you what you are told you are or who you are told to be?
NO!
WHY?
Because of something we are born with that cannot be taken away
A SOUL!
A soul that possess innate qualities that make us human.
These qualities are governed by choice.

We can choose to
Love or to Hate
Rejoice or Hurt
Laugh or Cry
Our life experiences can influence or seemingly compel us to follow a path but ultimately the choice is ours.

What keeps us from making a choice to change are our fears
Fears of
Being alone
Being judged
Being unworthy.

We can either change or be changed.
Souls are born free therefore WE must choose the life WE want FOR OURSELVES so as not to imprison our soul!

Don't be afraid of being alone
As long as you have your soul, you are not alone.

Don't be afraid of being judged
Your soul doesn't judge you so why should you let anyone else?

Don't be afraid of being unworthy.
Your worth is not defined by what you do or what is done to you.
You are born with a worth that never fades.
You only have to look in your soul to find your worth.
It is always there.

Who you are is who you want to be.
Who you want to be is in your soul.
Nurture your soul. Listen to your soul.
Nobody can change your soul, not even you.

You can ignore it or you can embrace it.
To ignore it is to die.
To embrace it is to live.
Choose LIFE for you are born free and die free - so live with FREEDOM.

YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE.

Friendship Means.....

A friend is one of the nicest things
you can have and one of the best
things you can be.



A friend is a living treasure,
and if you have one, you have one of the most
valuable gifts in life.



A friend is the one who will always
be beside you through
all the laughter and through
each and every tear.



A friend is the one thing you can
always rely on; the someone you can
always open up to;
the wonderful person
who always believes in you
in a way that no one else seems to.



A friend is a sanctuary.
A friend is a smile.
A friend is a hand that is always
holding yours,
no matter where you are,
no matter how close or far
apart you may be.



A friend is someone who is always there
and will always, always care.



A friend is a feeling of forever
in the heart.



A friend is the one door
that is always open.



A friend is one of the nicest things
you can have and one of the best
things you can be.

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EASY VS DIFFICULT

Easy is to get a place is someone's address book.
Difficult is to get a place in someone's heart

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others
Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes

Easy is to talk without thinking
Difficult is to refrain the tongue

Easy is to hurt someone who loves us.
Difficult is to heal the wound...

Easy is to forgive others
Difficult is to ask for forgiveness

Easy is to set rules.
Difficult is to follow them...

Easy is to dream every night.
Difficult is to fight for a dream...

Easy is to show victory.
Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity...

Easy is to admire a full moon.
Difficult to see the other side...

Easy is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult is to get up...

Easy is to enjoy life every day.
Difficult to give its real value...

Easy is to pray every night.
Difficult is to find God in small things...

Easy is to promise something to someone.
Difficult is to fulfill that promise...

Easy is to say we love.
Difficult is to show it every day...

Easy is to criticize others.
Difficult is to improve oneself...

Easy is to make mistakes.
Difficult is to learn from them...

Easy is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it.

Easy is to think about improving.
Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action...

Easy is to think bad of others
Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt...

Easy is keep the friendship with words
Difficult is to keep it with meanings.

Easy is to receive
Difficult is to give

Easy to read this
Difficult to follow