The First Secret: THE POWER OF LOVE - Lovebegins with our thoughts. We become what we think. Lovingthoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships.Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts aboutourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we needto consider their needs and desires. Thinking about yourideal partner will help recognize him or her when you meet.
The Second Secret: THE POWER OF RESPECT - Youcannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The firstperson you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gainself-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, askyourself, "What do I respect about them?"
The Third Secret: THE POWER OF GIVING - If you want toreceive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love yougive, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself,freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness.The secret formula of a happy, lifelong relationship is to alwaysfocus on what you can give instead of you can take.
The Fourth Secret: THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP - To find truelove you must first find a true friend. To love someone completelyyou must love them for who they are not what they look like.Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you wantto bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.
The Fifth Secret: THE POWER OF TOUCH - Touch is one ofthe most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriersand bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical andemotional states and makes us more receptive to love.
The Sixth Secret: THE POWER OF LETTING GO - If you lovesomething, let it be free. Even in a loving relationship, people needtheir space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgiveand let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of ourfears, prejudices, egos and conditions.
The Seventh Secret: THE POWER OF COMMUNICATION -To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the peopleyou love know; that you love and appreciate them. Never beafraid to say, "I love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praiseand acknowledge someone. Always leave someone you love witha loving word ... it could be the last time you see them.
The Eighth Secret: THE POWER OF COMMITMENT - If youwant to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it.Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have lovingrelationships, you must be committed to loving relationships.When you are committed to someone or something, quitting isnever an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationshipfrom a strong, loving one.
The Ninth Secret: THE POWER OF PASSION - Passion igniteslove and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come throughphysical attraction alone. It comes from deep commitment,enthusiasm, interest and excitement. The essence of love andhappiness are the same, all we need to do is to live each daywith passion.
The Tenth Secret: THE POWER OF TRUST - You cannot lovesomeone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as ifyour relationship with the person you love will never end. Trustis essential in all loving relationships. Trust yourself, trust othersand trust the world. It is the foundation for LOVE.
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