Wednesday, January 31, 2007

WHO AM I ???



WHO AM I ???
You are born into this world free
Free from fault or guilt
Born innocent.
You are then bombarded with
Expectations, control, blame, rules and responsibilities.

Does this make you defined by external sources?
Are you what you are told you are or who you are told to be?
NO!
WHY?
Because of something we are born with that cannot be taken away
A SOUL!
A soul that possess innate qualities that make us human.
These qualities are governed by choice.

We can choose to
Love or to Hate
Rejoice or Hurt
Laugh or Cry
Our life experiences can influence or seemingly compel us to follow a path but ultimately the choice is ours.

What keeps us from making a choice to change are our fears
Fears of
Being alone
Being judged
Being unworthy.

We can either change or be changed.
Souls are born free therefore WE must choose the life WE want FOR OURSELVES so as not to imprison our soul!

Don't be afraid of being alone
As long as you have your soul, you are not alone.

Don't be afraid of being judged
Your soul doesn't judge you so why should you let anyone else?

Don't be afraid of being unworthy.
Your worth is not defined by what you do or what is done to you.
You are born with a worth that never fades.
You only have to look in your soul to find your worth.
It is always there.

Who you are is who you want to be.
Who you want to be is in your soul.
Nurture your soul. Listen to your soul.
Nobody can change your soul, not even you.

You can ignore it or you can embrace it.
To ignore it is to die.
To embrace it is to live.
Choose LIFE for you are born free and die free - so live with FREEDOM.

YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE.

Friendship Means.....



A friend is one of the nicest things
you can have and one of the best
things you can be.



A friend is a living treasure,
and if you have one, you have one of the most
valuable gifts in life.



A friend is the one who will always
be beside you through
all the laughter and through
each and every tear.



A friend is the one thing you can
always rely on; the someone you can
always open up to;
the wonderful person
who always believes in you
in a way that no one else seems to.



A friend is a sanctuary.
A friend is a smile.
A friend is a hand that is always
holding yours,
no matter where you are,
no matter how close or far
apart you may be.



A friend is someone who is always there
and will always, always care.



A friend is a feeling of forever
in the heart.



A friend is the one door
that is always open.



A friend is one of the nicest things
you can have and one of the best
things you can be.







EASY VS DIFFICULT


Easy is to get a place is someone's address book.
Difficult
is to get a place in someone's heart

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others
Difficult
is to recognize our own mistakes

Easy is to talk without thinking
Difficult
is to refrain the tongue

Easy is to hurt someone who loves us.
Difficult
is to heal the wound...

Easy is to forgive others
Difficult
is to ask for forgiveness

Easy is to set rules.
Difficult is to follow them...

Easy is to dream every night.
Difficult
is to fight for a dream...

Easy is to show victory.
Difficult
is to assume defeat with dignity...

Easy is to admire a full moon.
Difficult
to see the other side...

Easy is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult
is to get up...

Easy is to enjoy life every day.
Difficult
to give its real value...

Easy is to pray every night.
Difficult
is to find God in small things...

Easy is to promise something to someone.
Difficult
is to fulfill that promise...

Easy is to say we love.
Difficult
is to show it every day...

Easy is to criticize others.
Difficult
is to improve oneself...

Easy is to make mistakes.
Difficult
is to learn from them...

Easy is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult
is to take care of it so not to lose it.

Easy is to think about improving.
Difficult
is to stop thinking it and put it into action...

Easy is to think bad of others
Difficult
is to give them the benefit of the doubt...

Easy is keep the friendship with words
Difficult
is to keep it with meanings.

Easy is to receive
Difficult
is to give

Easy to read this
Difficult
to follow

Friendship Quotes



"True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost."
- Charles Caleb Colton
"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
- Anais Nin
"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."
"A friend is one who walks in when others walk out"
-Walter Winchell
"A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else."
- Len Wein - Sent by Paulo Louro
"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words."
- Sent by Donna Roberts
"A friend is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in yourself."
- Sent by Lysha
"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.
Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.
Walk beside me and be my friend."
- Albert Camus (also attributed to Maimonidies).
"A hug is worth a thousand words. A friend is worth more."
"Everyone is a friend, until they prove otherwise."
"Every person is a new door to a different world."
- from movie "Six Degrees of Seperation"
"It takes a long time to grow an old friend."
- by John Leonard
"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up."
- Bible: Ecclesiastes
"Two may talk together under the same roof for many years, yet never really meet; and two others at first speech are old friends."
- Mary Catherwood
"Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art... It has no survival value; rather is one of those things that give value to survival."
- C. S. Lewis
"Friends are the most important ingredient in this recipe of life."
"The better part of one's life consists of his friendships."
- Abraham Lincoln,
"The love of my life is the love between friends."

"A Friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway!!!"
"To be depressed is to be lonely; to have a friend is to be happy..."
- Guido
"Though our communication wanes at times of absence, I'm aware of a strength that emanates in the background."
-Claudette Renner
"Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being."
-Goethe


"Friendship is a pretty full-time occupation if you really are friendly with somebody. You canít have too many friends because then youíre just not really friends."
"No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever."
- Francois Mocuriac
"Give others freedom to be themselves. Appreciate the differences between their ways an yours."
"Friends are the Bacon Bits in the Salad Bowl of Life."
- "Pizza Place Sign"
"Friendship is one mind in two bodies."
- Mencius
"Truth and tears clear the way to a deep and lasting friendship."
"True friendship is never serene."
- Mariede Svign
"Friendship: a building contract you sign with laughter and break with tears."
"Friends are God's way of taking care of us."
"It's the friends you can call up at 4am that matter."
- Marlene Dietrick
"A friend is a gift you give yourself."
- Robert Louis Stevenson
"Friend - a person known well to another and regarded with liking, affection and loyalty."
- Collins English Dictionary
"A new friendship is like an unripened fruit - it may become either an orange or a lemon"
- Emma Stacey
"Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend's success."
- Oscar Wilde
"Those friends thou hast, and their adoption tried,
Grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel;
But do not dull thy palm with entertainment
Of each new-hatch'd, unfledg'd comrade."
- William Shakespeare
"Friendship with oneself is all-important because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world."
- Eleanor Roosevelt
"If you judge people, you have no time to love them."
- Mother Teresa
"I will speak ill of no man, and speak all the good I know of everybody."
- Benjamin Franklin
"Misfortune shows those who are not really friends."
- Aristotle
"Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy you must have somebody to divide it with."
- Mark Twain
"Thus nature has no love for solitude, and always leans, as it were, on some support; and the sweetest support is found in the most intimate friendship."
- Cicero
"Advice is like snow; the softer it falls, the longer it dwells upon, and the deeper it sinks into the mind."
- Samuel Taylor Coleridge
"The best mirror is an old friend."
- George Herbert

FRIENDSHIP

Friendship is like a flower
that blossoms in sun and shade
A friend who knows its value
will never let it fade

Life's truest happiness is found in the friendship we make along the way
A friend will always
strengthen you with his prayers
bless you with his love
and encourage you with his hope
Friendship is like playing violin.
Its music may stop every now and then
But the melody goes on forever
Friendship is a precious thread refining, enriching and strengthening the fabric of our lives
Friend shares the memories of yesterday, the joys of today and the hopes of tomorrow